Thanks for all.

Al

I just downloaded your ebook, look forward to reading it.
You also mentioned an ebook on writing an ebook which I would like to understand what to do, where can I get a copy of it to understand what needs to be done?

Drop by at my site and leave a comment when next on line.

All the best…Paul
http://paulmracek.com/

Thank you for your wonderful comment and yeah I agree to about retreating and standing back, but the old guy initially teased me once already and the first time I thought I would just be polite, smile, say hello and then ignore him and carry on looking for the book I wanted.

Guess it didn’t work because when I was waiting to be served at the librarian counter, he decided to tease me again but this time he was teasing and laughing at me at the same time and I thought: Look, I gave you a chance already and now you are really treading over the line here, and that’s when I thought of the ethics of reciprocity rule which I read in an aesop fable when I was a kid.

So combining this and what Alex has told me in Module 3 about expressing myself, along with Coleen advice which she recently gave me, I simply just did what I thought was the correct thing.

The reason why I know the 40 year old female librarian hates me is that: I’ve been going to this same library since I was a school kid and everytime I came to the counter when she was on duty, she would deliberately walk away, pretend to be doing something and make me wait for like 5-10 minutes before coming to serve me. I’ve always tried being politeful to her but it has never worked and I don’t personally hold a grudge or a chord with her or anything either. Maybe she just on a different wavelength – I don’t really know.

As for the 18 year old – nope I’m not interested, past experience tells me that I will and should not be such a fool and fall at the first hurdle of intrigued by female upon first sight. My past experience have been nightmare. The reason I mentioned about the young libraian was that a) she was there, and b) it was what happened and c) I like ot explain things in great details and it helps keeps things amusing, plus I also like to study human behaviours and am intrigued about what they people thinking.

Additionally, I constantly remind myself each day that my aims are to build a sucessful online/offline business that will make enough money for my parents so that they can retire early, money to help fund my little brothers univeristy fees and help him start a career he wants and for me to pursue my dream of being a writer and be recognised for my writing efforts. That’s it.

Anyway apologies for this Long Post Gary

All the best Nigel.

Thanks for dropping by and glad you enjoyed the post. I look forward to your new products and thanks in advance

All the best
Nigel

Even though we have never met I feel as though I know you.

WOW! You are REALLY blossoming. Well done, Nigel, for holding your ground and sticking to your guns! I would have loved to have seen that exchange.

When certain “incomplete” people (as I call them) are really nasty and being d*ckheads and beating up on who they consider to be “EASY” targets I like to stand back and watch.

If things get out-of-hand I step in with a bit of “ANGER MODERATION” stuff of my own. I HATE seeing people persecuted and, although I am capable or resorting to any level of tactic employed by the other side, I really enjoy using the power of words and VERBAL expression to make bad people SEE the error of their ways.

Then, if they choose to escalate things and take it to the nth level of stupidity – ie physical stupidity – heh…heh… boy! Are they in for a surprise – LOL! I won’t say any more here.

Anyway, Nigel, what makes you think the 40 year old woman hates you? I’d be interested to know why you think that.

I would make a point of everytime that you go there of passing her and giving her a nice big smile and saying, “Good-morning!” or whatever the case may be. Convert her – heh…heh… maybe you already HAVE!

Personally, I think you have your attention more on the 18 year old – I know!

Nigel, having said all of the above – ALWAYS know when retreat is the better option to valour.

Regards

Gary Simpson
http://motivationselfesteem.com/talk/

Nice post and keep posting your results – it makes great reading.

We have another new product coming out very soon. i will send you a copy when its done.

Cheers

JJ
http://improfitlauncher.com

I certainly look forward to your new ebook and ofcourse, I would defiantely help you with anything that you can think I’ll be able to help you with.

I’ve posted some suggestions for you on your blog post – so I hope that helps and if I think of any more ideas, I will forward them to you right away.

All the best Nigel

All fantastic stuff mate. I have read your ebook now and it’s excellent.

Talking of ebooks…

I just finished the 1st draft of my first ebook and
I wondered if you could help me?

I get many questions a day on my blog and by email about
blog related topics. So the book I am putting together
answers most of these, but I would like to know if you
can think of anything else that could be included. Even
better would be any questions you want answered.

The ebook covers WordPress settings, changing the header,
widgets, plugings, adding aweber, adsense, adverts and more.

I have just posted on my blog so if you can think of anything else
I should cover, please leave a comment.

Thanks!
Mark
http://missioninternetmarketing.com