From the monthly archives:

March 2009

Zala Lulu – This Time I’m back whether you like it or NOT!!!

by nigelyip on March 25, 2009

Good morning/afternoon everyone

It’s been just over a month since I committed my departure from the group, only to realize what a seriously idiot move I had made. The value of the F500 Community is God best gift to me and there’s me jeopardizing it. But hey, that is the past now and whether you all like it or not, this time, I’m BACK from my rest, recreation period, and from my recent Tour De I.M!!!

Re-Fuel and armed with my own secret plans (cocktails) for long term success, which now needs to be implemented, it means I can now concentrate and focus all my energy on this  all important “my inner psychological battle of Me Vs IM & Making Money Online” and outcome of this war is going to be determined here over the next 3 – 6 months* time on this blog on whether who the winner will be!!! (*Note – this may take longer*)

The only difference is that:

  • It’s not about achieving the most in the shortest time, I will invest as much time as necessary
  • It’s not about setting stupid targets like cramming 3 years of IM or learning into a few weeks, I know now definitely it’s not possible
  • It’s not about the Million Dollar money issue, money is a by product, a lovely one it is for those who hunger and cherish it
  • And it certainly not about causing a stupid frenzy which jeopardizes my entire plan, business and potential success

Instead it’s about solving the puzzle, enjoying the journey and cracking the IM and Making Money Online Code !!!

And this time, it’s going to get “even” or should that be “uneven”!!! By Uneven, I mean: less than 2% effort, 98% rewards. It’s ambitious and optimistic, but then didn’t Alex once said, start small, think BIG?

Anyway – All the best and here’s to long term success
Nigel

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Life is Special and you only have one of them

by nigelyip on March 22, 2009

Hey Everyone

Today is a very special day, especially for all the kids in the UK, as it’s Mother’s Day or Mothering Sunday whichever one you prefer to call it is a day when we let our mothers’ know how much she means to us.

Usually kids will cook and serve breakfast in bed for them, or a nice dinner out, families get together for those who live far away or have to work abroad, some will also bake cakes, present gifts, send cards and flowers etc… Obviously there are many more different ways to show how much our mothers mean to us.

Now it just happens that I somehow stumbled a really interesting YouTube Video which coincidentally fits in with this post.

The song is by a Romanian Teen Band called Blaxy Girls and song entitled Dear Mama. Now, the main reason I posted it on my blog is that the concept/story contained within this MTV certainly has a special important message of which I think everyone out there can appreciate.

The song demonstrates that how our mothers are always constantly thinking about us, are on the lookout, helping and supporting us when we most needed, nurturing and looking after us from birth to adulthood and beyond. And trying their best to protect us from danger. (Oh and don’t forget our fathers’ too, as they do the same too, except they try to act cool – lol)

So here it is:

I hope all those who have or will watched this video will appreciate that we should be grateful that we have mothers (and fathers) that are there when we need them most. Some people unfortunately have lost them at an very early age or were born without them and left at orphanages.

So okay, you’re wondering why should you listen to me as I’m no expert or in a position to advise anyone, but what I will say is that for those whose relationships with mothers (or fathers) are not too well, or you find them can be annoying at some time, or you hate them for something they did that you didn’t agree thus you had an intensive argument with them that you think can not be repairable. Step back and think again but from their perspective.

All they were trying to do was helping us in becoming a better person, investing their efforts into us so that our lives can be easier and not hard. Plus, hating or having a grudge against them is bad for health, both physically and psychologically. It’s like comparing to have a knot in a piece of rope.

So, just make an effort, untie that knot, try and rebuild that relationship with them, forgive them and let your ego go. Your parents have already forgiven you and they are just waiting for you to come back, and will always be there for you whenever you need them.

You only get one mother (and father) in your lifetime and so, don’t neglect them, only to regret later when they are gone. Plus it doesn’t cost much at all to say that you are sorry or that you love them. It might be quite hard for some to say any of the aforementioned phrases, but the thought will mean at lot to them personally and you will also feel happier too, because the knot in your heart has been untied.

I’m sorry if I have offended anyone and best regards
Nigel

PS: Happy Mother’s day to both my mum and all the mothers out there in the World. For it be Without your continuous contribution, (as well as father’s too) we would not be here or become who we are today. Thank you!

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Another Year has passed – another year of failure or success?

by nigelyip on March 13, 2009

Hey Everyone,

Today is quite a special day for me as it marks another year of my life has just passed away. Whether one has said the past year has been wasted or not is another matter.

Not only this, it also marks another milestone that 1 month has passed and it’s now time for me to take some action with my life and steer it in the correct direction to the destination of where I wish to go.

Some will say that the journey to getting there is more important, and some will say that the arrival at the destination is more important.

To be honest, both are of equally important – reason being that: Everyone has their own aims, ambitions and paths to life and success, and no one individual has the same exact goals or ambitions. They may have similar goals or crossover from time to time, but ultimately, we are all seeking and pursuing on our own journey of life and unlocking our own personal secrets, and you know what? No one formula fits all.

Furthermore, the journey that we may or may not experience in regards to various aspects of daily life, really is determined by our own individual actions, decisions and whatever has been thrown at us.

We just need to learn how to manipulate these choices and options given to us, apply what we see fit for ourselves and then amalgamate both these variables to fit our individual needs and aims. And when we have done this, we just need to have faith and belief in our choices and decisions, and not let anything or doubt put us off track.

Well, that’s all for now today, nothing particularly special, just plain ranter?

Take care my dear friends and come back soon!!!
Nigel

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